Here's What My Coaching is About
I was just exchanging some text messages with a dear friend yesterday. I told her I still have trouble describing what I do.
Being her inituitive, curious, magnificent self, she asked me why. 🌈
Shit, I ask myself the same question, too! Have I not figured it out yet?! Life coaching or coaching, what is it all about??
My dear, patient coach told me the problem comes from my belief that I need to have words to fit it into something called Marketing. My belief is that there ought to be a set of "right" answers for questions.
The truth is I don't know how to articulate something that can be so abstract. It has just occurred to me that it is because words have their limitations.
Everyone is so different. Everyone's internal world is different. Everyone feels so differently. Everyone's perception and understanding is so different.
It's like how do I describe what Love is? How do I describe Courage? How do I define Success?
These things are not linear!
You might not even fully know Who You Are. 🤷🏻♀️
I have decided that this is how I want to describe what I do: These are the qualities that people experience when they work with me and speak with me, professionally and even socially.
You will also experience that within your mind and body: They are: Freedom, Love, Joy, Peace and Power.
To add to the mix, there are also: Hope, Optimism, Confidence, and Possibilities -- all guided by your inituition and your soul.
To reach that, I work to cultivate all these qualities in myself.
You might wonder, what do they have to do with anything?
My answer is: When you are connected with them, everything in your life unfolds the way you desire. Thinking about that, my body and my whole being is vibrating with passion and love; my eyes are wet. I really don't know how to use words to describe these feelings.
I have often been told I have a calm exterior when I coach. I never understand how they get that impression because my internal world feels very differently.
It feels like a tornado 🌪 swirling inside me. Sometimes it feels like fire sparkles 🎇. The fact is I love human interest stories. When I listen to stories from their depths of their soul, I feel very much alive inside.
If you want to know more about what I do, get in touch.
Let's grab a cup of coffee, tea or glass of wine first — in person or on Zoom. Just talk. Why not? I may be able to help you.
If we decide we are not good fit, at least we can have fun and some good time!
AND I'm embracing more of my Chinese name. Would you know how to pronounce it? Feel free to ask me.
With gratitude, ❤️
